You can have healthy relationships with increased connection and communication.

Marriage & Couples Counseling

I don't feel connected to my partner or spouse.
My partner misunderstands me.
He/she undervalues my role in our relationship.
My spouse and I are always fighting about the same things over and over again.
My partner had an affair and I need help coping with the fallout.
It feels like we aren’t on the same page and they don’t care about my feelings anymore.

Having problems in a relationship is normal. If you aren’t arguing with each other at all you might actually be really disconnected. Couples who have successful relationships have to learn to navigate marriage issues. They know how to put problems in perspective. They understand that the way to work out issues is by talking openly and honestly with their partner instead of fighting, insulting, withdrawing, or sulking.